Mixed Dating: How to maximise your chances of finding a lover


If you are one of those people out there who are finding it hard to meet a lover on the interracial dating scene, making a few changes to your lifestyle could be just what you need. What are those changes? Here are 7 great things you can do today which will maximise your chances of finding your dream lover.

  1. Sign up to interracial dating or mixed dating sites– Apart from going to the club, signing up to a dating site is one of the best ways to maximise your chances of finding a lover. Not only does it give you access to many people at the same time but you can change the setting to only show you people close to you eliminating the distance barrier. It is very easy to get started and all you have to do is set up a profile, upload a picture and start chatting with matches.
  2. Sign up to the gym– The gym isn’t just a good place to keep fit; it is also a wonderful place to meet like minded people. You can sign up for classes and meet plenty of new people in the process.
  3. Switch your everyday routine up a bit– We all have a favourite place where we usually have our lunch or coffee. Instead of going to the same place over and over again each and every day, try changing things up and going to a different place with a different environment and surrounding. Who knows, you might meet you ideal lover there.
  4. Go out more– If sitting at home watching soaps, reality television and films are your thing over the weekend it is time to chance that. If your friends are having a get together or a birthday party, tagging along doesn’t hurt at all and you will maximise your chances of meeting new people and potentially finding love.
  5. Smile and don’t forget to make eye contact– With everyone stuck in their own bubble and the busy lives we have, not a lot of people take the time to observe their surroundings. They say “when you smile, the whole world smiles with you” give that a try next time you are out. Smile and make eye contact with people, even if it does lead to anything it is a nice gesture and also a good chance at finding love. You never know you might be smiling back and making eye contact with you.
  6. Try to spend time with your work mates– If you spend plenty of time with your workmates, chances are they will introduce you to their friends when you tag along with them for some after work drink. This increases your chances of meeting a lover by about 15%.
  7. Finding new hobbies– Anyone out there looking for interracial or black women white men love would be happy to know that love can sometimes come by finding people who share the same interests as you. It makes the dialogue on the first date very easy and you are both participating in a hobby you all love and enjoy.